We have bathed, shaved, made our faces up, fixed our hair and dressed in our best. We are off to church. As soon as we leave our driveway, we start turning off certain private home and personal behavior switches. We start flipping on the church ones. We fuss less along the way. If we fuss, it is in quieter tones. Our arguments usually stop at the parking lot of the church. Too often, we turn off the switches that would reveal our sins, burdens, trials, disappointments) pain, personal problems, and our deepest worries. Our most intimate secrets are seldom shared with anyone. Our mates may not even know what private pain or guilt we bear, let alone our church family. Many of us do not even have mates to share them with. But, we feel compelled out of conscience, or law, to meet at least the minimum requirements of church membership. Due to ...